I met Akira Yoshinoya ( not the real name ) about 3 years ago in Korea through a friend who got to know her through an app called Couchsurfing. We went taking some photos in front of Korea palace with 5 other guys. I liked her from the first time I saw her, she was so cute and pretty that I couldn’t resist. But since i was working and staying in Korea and she must go back to Japan, I just got rid her out of my mind. Few weeks later I found her facebook, and I added her as friend on facebook, though we never chat at all after that meeting.

A year later, it’s just like a coincidence that few weeks before I prepared to go to Japan with my cousin for his business purpose, I saw very pretty photo of Akira on facebook wearing red dress and she was holding wine glass, I commented on her photo “ pretty” and she replied me back “ thank you “, since then we chated everyday, but still not too intense.

Finally we met again in her hometown, Fukuoka, Japan. She gave me a hug when we met and we had dinner together, we had some conversation, she looks beautiful at that night, actually she always looks beautiful. We met again the next day, and one other day, before I went back to Korea for work.

After many times meeting her, I found out that she love to party most of the time and being the center of attraction in every party especially when she is drinking in the bar dancing as attractive as she can so that many guys will come after her to get in relationship with her. She will made guy fly to heaven on the first time you met her and some guys will exchage social media contact such as Facebook, Couchsurfing, Line messengers and she will start to work from that point.

Don’t get it wrong, what she wrote on the messenger for you isn’t special for you, she is doing hundreds of chat reply every day and night to many different guys for her GaijinHunter process (Gaijin is Japanese word means foreigner). Once she got you, what you can do is just trying hard to beg her to give you her love, and it won’t be happen unless you are willing to spend much money, I mean, really spend much much money for her. She will encourage you to travel abroad either to your country or third country with you. She will not say that she want to go with you, instead she will say I want to eat your country food in your country. And when you do travel with her, you must buy her something as a gift in every stop, airport duty free, shopping mall in every city you visit with her. Once again, she will not ask you to buy it for her directly, instead she wll just say “I wanna check this brand stores”, or “I just wanna do window shopping”. But after she choosed some items in the store and come to the payment in front of the cashier, she always didn’t say anything about the payment, instead she will only stare at you as if she is saying please buy me these things.

A gift or a bundle of gifts worth less than usd 1,000 is consider as a small gift for a her and she will not take it into acount. It’s just like a tip for being accompanion with you. She will just sit and drink or eat together, and she mostly ignore you and doesn’t want to talk to you. When you ask why she ignore you or show your dissapointment expression she always hide behind her fake reason that you like her but she hasn’t yet like you back, or she will say that you do too many physical contact too much, such as holding hand, or hug her. And after sometime, you will think what is the point of dating or even just be friend with her and you buy so many gifts in order to keep her by yourside but she always turns you down.

When you realized it and changed your mind and started to ignore her too, it is already too late by that time. She already knew it from your changing treatment to her, and she’s ready to leave you too, no more sexual teasing from her again. But you will be free after getting this kind of shocking thing in your life after some period of time with nightmares (I mean literally nightmares every night). In my case I spent that scary nights with excessive liquor drink and dated so many girls just to get her out of my mind.

How to recoqnize that she is a Gaijin Hunter? Everything aren’t coincidences but she arranged it just like it happened as a “destiny”. She will tease you with her smile, or even to let you touching her hand before the day or at the time you buy her some gifts. But after shopping done, she will be back on teasing mode and not allow you to touch her again. These brain storming process will keep continue until you get ready to forget her and let her go.

Sometimes, she will disgrace you or crash your confidence and pride down to bottom level, could be by ignoring you when you talk to her, or she will give you annoying thing that you never imagine before in any kind of relationship with someone else. She is talking to you but her eyes and head are facing other direction so you will feel down. She will use the reaction you showed upon it, to further analyze you and put you in which complexity level you can be handled. She will not text you nor call you first, if you text her first, she will reply, but replying time is vary depends on how easy you are being targeted. For example if she knew that you really like her so much then she will think that you are an easy target that no need for her to spend extra energy to chat with you either online or having a chat in person when you meet her, and she can use her time to start to get new victims or maintain other “hard to manage” victims. Wealthy potential victim are normally more seem uncontrollable and need extra effort to make them kneel down to the GaijinHunter like her. so Gaijin Hunter taking care this type of victim very seriously.

The life cycle process for each Gaijin Hunter is really undefined, it could be take more than a year fake relationship or may be more, depends on the victim’s willingness to spend the money for Gaijin Hunter. Normally most Gaijin Hunter girl has 1 real boyfriend, that she really loves / likes, and when she is with you having a nice dinner on fancy restaurant, she will take as many nice pictures as she could, and she will send it to her real boyfriend, right away on the same place, in front of you. When come the time to pay the restaurant bill, she will say that she would go to rest room just to chat, video call her real boyfriend. And her real boyfriend only knew that she is hanging around with her female friends because sometime she take many pictures with female strangers on the spot so she can tell her boyfriend that she was traveling alone and met some female friends during her trip.

If a Gaijin Hunter girl doesn’t have a real boyfriend then all the photos, videos about food, restaurant, sightseeing places that she took will be used to tease some other foreigners or could be also Japanese guy victim. This trick is to stimulate her potential victims to take her out to that kind of places she likes.

I met Akari several times in her city, and she always brought me to expensive restaurant which cost me at least USD 200 to USD 300 each time we go to restaurant. She will spend more time with you if you buy her some expensive gifts. On her birthday I spent much money to give her international brand purse that I even never bought it for my mom. We went to nice steak restaurant which cost me another usd 300 to celebrate her birthday, and for that she was willing to take me to a beach and landmark tower in her city for sightseeing and taking photo together. Normally she won’t do that because it might left evidence for her as a Gaijin Hunter girl who always change “boyfriend”. We shared the same birth month, her birthday was coming first, I celebrated it in a very nice famous steak house in town and give her an expensive international brand purse as a gift, but when it comes to my birthday, she only sent me one message of happy birthday wish through a messenger, though I was happy enough that she remembered my birthday.
One day after Bali trip, me and Akira were about to take a flight back to Japan. We were taking the same elevator at Bali airport with a guy. He was taking same flight with us, and we ended up talking with that guy. The guy seemed to like Akira, and I found out that Akira was also trying to get to know that guy from the way she walked behind me in order to get closer to that guy, but I tried my best that I could to make thet guy walked for airplane boarding first. Then here was another proof that she is a Gaijin Hunter. Our flight was a night flight, In the middle of the night she asked me to give her way to go to the plane toilet, because I sat in the aisle seat and she sat on the window seat. I followed her to the toilet, without she noticed me, I found an empty seat to sit a bit far from the toilet while waiting for her. A strange thing happened! She went out from the toilet, stood up in front of the toilet, fixing her hair style for 5 seconds, and then she went back again into the toilet for another 3 minutes. Finally she came out from the toilet for the second time and I walked behind her, once again, without she knew it. She looked at the guy we met on the elevator before, he was sleeping, and I was sure that she tried to met again with that guy to get to know each other and perhaps she wanted to exchange contact not because she liked him, but because she just found a new potential victim that interested in her. So if you fall into Gaijin Hunter trap, she will start to make a fake romance plot that lead you to spend your money for her and you will get her fake love. So basically Gaijin Hunter works in many times fake romance life cycle, pretend to know you “ naturally “ , make you fall in love with her and then she will drive you crazy, you will spend a lot of money for her and when you realize that you will never get her love that you expected, you will start to bother her for that, she will dumb you as an end of a fake romance life cycle.

When I asked her to visit Bali together with me, I provided her round trip flight ticket from her home country to Bali. She wanted only the most expensive airline, which she can profile her potential victim social status, instead of those who are flying with budget airlines also she wanted to get mileage accumulated to her airline loyalty card. One day, I still remember her dissapointing face when she found out that the flight we took had no milleage transfer to her card because it was a promotional flight.
Because too many victims that she gave fake love to, sometime she couldn’t answer simple question such as “why did you check man perfume in the store just now?”, “ Is it for your boyfriend?” Because she seems never bring any gifts to her family after trip, so she must check it for someone out there, could be her real boyfriend or, her big potential victim. When her head is full of thinking she only can answer “ I don’t know”.

She didn’t know about internet tethering, when I asked her internet thetering, she didn’t know, then I let her know and she gave me internet connection in Japan. I was kidding by telling her that all her chat record, email, contacts all has been copied to my cellphone during the internet tethering. She opened her mouth for few second can’t closed it and only making sound HUH? I let it happened for 1 minutes. Then I laughed and said “ no, Akira, I am just joking…and she smiled again and she said “ you are scary man”

I was crying in front of her when we drank of Sake one night, I was sad because till now we hang out together for the last 2 months but she still didn’t give me any attentions.
I think she learned the patern, that she tried to find something to make me mad, then I will mess up the relationship, but not long after that I will apologize and wanted to see her again and give her some gift, she learned it very well.
After few days she ignored my Line messages finnaly she replied my messages and asking me to go to mental hospital to check if I had mental problem.
She always login to couchsurfing when it is close to lunch and dinner time so that she can have nice free meal with new foreigners everyday in her town.

Now I know what kind of Gaijin Hunter she is. She consider a guy who spend money with her as a customer and she put priority to every customer based on the benefit that customer / victim gave her. I used to be in the second level customer : she replied under 1 hour – 2 hours. Now she put me in the 3 rd level replied within half day, It is because I asked her why I should pay all expenses when I am with her. And if you don’t wanna pay it, she will put you in the lowest level : no reply. She only care with someone who spend money for her everyday.

And I just found that as a professional GaijinHunter, she will not easily say thank you or express happiness when she got “cheap” gift under usd 1,000, even when i gave her usd 1,010 Chanel purse, her expression was happy but she tried to hide it.
Now it’s over, she always blamed me for a mistake that I never do but on the other hand, she said that I always blame her for something that she didn’t do! This is really typical Gaijin Hunter’s way to mess up with your brain.

Conclusion : Just be careful when you are traveling in Japan, especially what I experienced in Fukuoka. Gaijin Hunter girl mostly targeted white guy. Japanese man and many Japanese girls will make a gathering and then you will be invited to a drinking party, they will get some fee from the bar after you pay the drink, they pretend to share the bill thou. When you fall in love with one of the girls in the gathering, from there she will suck all of your money.

Beside of my bad experience, I wish you have a nice and safe travel in Japan, because basically Japan will offer you nice traveling experience, clean environment, tasty Asian food and friendly people.